Living with pets: the 10 rules of pet etiquette

Although country folks are known for adoring animals, not everyone shares that sentiment.

Mistresses of modern etiquette Kay Plunkett-Hogge and Debora Robertson were consulted for their advice on how pets and their owners should behave in public.

We also discuss maintaining a pleasant aroma and a fur-free environment while coexisting with pets.

1. DE-HAIR SOFAS AND CHAIRS BEFORE GUESTS COME OVER

If there are pets in the house, make sure to let guests know so they can prepare for the possibility of an allergic reaction.

A reusable lint remover is a godsend for couches, chairs, and rugs. Short hair collection can be achieved with a rubber broom, microfiber mop, or electrostatic mop on hard floors. In contrast, a damp rubber squeegee or gloves can be used on carpets before vacuuming.

It’s essential to have a vacuum that can handle pet hair, and ideally, one with a HEPA filter to eliminate allergens like pet dander.

Scoop any hair out of the drum or filter of your washing machine or dryer after each use to keep it functioning smoothly.

2. PROTECT UPHOLSTERY FROM CLAWS

If you are at a friend’s house for a visit, please keep your dog off of the furniture.

Use scratching posts or boards to keep your pet from scratching up your furniture at home. As an elegant replacement for blankets, try a cotton futon cushion or one of The Lounging Hound’s plush velvet or wool toppers for your sofa.

You are buying a brand new couch! Aquaclean fabric is the one you want to look for; it is resistant to stains and scratches and is pet-friendly. Use a spray repellent to prevent pets from jumping on the couch or the cushions.

If you want to ensure your pet is comfortable in your home, consider getting it a bed that complements your furniture.

3. BAN DOGS FROM THE LURKING WHEN YOU HAVE FRIENDS FOR DINNER

No one likes the feeling of a damp nose sniffing around at their feet, seeking spilt crumbs and scraps. Always ask if it’s okay to bring your dogs to a friend’s house for lunch, dinner, or the weekend, giving them the chance to say no. Many people find that sharing their homes with pets is too much work.

4. CLEAN UP ACCIDENTS

After spraying with a mixture of one cup of water, one tablespoon of vinegar, and two teaspoons of baking soda, blot dry.

The whole family can enjoy the calming effects of lavender, chamomile, and frankincense, but essential oils should be used with caution because they are toxic if eaten.

5. KEEP PET FOOD OUT OF SIGHT

If you buy in bulk and have limited cupboard space, decant dry food, pouches, and treats into jars and containers that will appear more presentable. Put a childproof latch on any low cabinets that might attract curious paws, or move any cleaning supplies or chemicals out of reach.

Mats that can be easily wiped clean can be placed under food bowls to prevent odours from building up. Use a liquid water softener like Calgon or half a cup of white vinegar when washing blankets and sheets.

6. KEEP YOUR DOG ON A LEAD IN A CROWDED PLACE

Even though you believe your dog is the cutest thing since Mickey Mouse, some people have a real fear of canines.

If another dog is on a leash and you want your dog to play with it, you should ask the owner first. The same rule applies if you wish to pet somebody else’s dog. You have no idea what the other dog is going through; it could be a nervous or irritable variety.

8. BE CAREFUL WHEN PETS AND CHILDREN MEET

The loving attention of a young child might be too much for your pet. Some children may also be fearful of meeting your pet.

Children will beg to pet your dog if it is particularly adorable. But first, make sure it’s acceptable with an adult.

The happiness and well-being of your cat, rabbit or other furry buddies should serve as your guide. If your pet gets anxious around children, putting them in another room when they’re visiting is best.

9. CHECK RESTAURANTS ARE PET FRIENDLY

Find out in advance if your preferred restaurant or cafe allows dogs. Ensure your dog is well-behaved and won’t cause accidents by running loose if they’re let inside.

You wouldn’t want to leave a person you care about while they ate, so make sure your dog has something to eat before you go. Provide tasty snacks as a treat for good behaviour.

10. KEEP SMELLS AT BAY WITH HOME FRAGRANCE

A candle or diffuser might help you conceal the occasional sniff from your pet. Wax Lyrical’s Home Scenter Pets collection candle is ideal.